I arrived in New York City in autumn, after spending a mindless “summer” still in Ghana gearing up to leave the country. It wasn’t spoken about much actually, it was just accepted that it was time to pack up once more and go. I didn’t much share the news with my classmates before the end of the school year either; unlike my last days in class 6 in Germany. That being a British military school, last days were known for the sharing of tales of who would definitely be back next year, and who was going where next. There was no countdown on my part nor an eager anticipation of going to America. I just had a haughty sense that I had survived the brief sojourn to Ghana, land of my parents, and I was soon to return to abrokyire where I truly belonged. If given a choice, I would have asked to be dropped off in England to stay with my uncle there as I didn’t care much for the United States of America.
Our father left first. Left the packing up of the house and the managing of settling of accounts and other business to our mother to deal with. That was a tense time. About a month later, I flew my first sans-parents flight over the Atlantic with my sister N’ku. It was an unremarkable flight. She was excited as in just a couple of days it would be her birthday. Our father met us at JFK, and with our diplomatic privileges we were soon walking on American soil.
I do remember being very consciously aware of all the white people around me. Funny, as it had just been three years since I was last the sole Black person for miles around. White people, Asian peoples, fair-skinned Black people all around. All talking really funny. They were the ones talking at a 100 miles per hour, slurring their words, and dropping F-bombs every few words, yet I was the one being asked to repeat myself. Biscuit huh?
We stopped at a petrol station on our way home from the airport and I decided to use the bathroom. The key was tied to a large wooden plaque as if someone was going to run away with it. The restroom was dingy, smelly, and with a damp floor as you would imagine these sort of restrooms are. This is America? I asked myself. I half expected gleaming bright Mr. Clean fresh smelling stalls. But what truly took me aback was the broken toilet. The bowl was full of water! Since I had to go, I went (#1) but didn’t flush the toilet least the floor truly got flooded. I returned the plaque without a word and soon we were on our way out of the city and into the suburbs.
Concrete grayness changed to lush greenery. I did not recall this much greenery from my time in London or Berlin. On the highway, the cars had all looked so huge and I wondered why some of them had wood paneling. Weird! Wooden cars in America. The thought that America must have a lot of wood at her disposal was bolstered by the homes that we passed by that reminded me of Little House on the Prairie. From where I just came from, homes were made of solid cement blocks!
Our new home was the tiniest on the block. Figures! And yes it was made of wood. I did like this cute little “cottage” though. But most surprisingly, the toilets were all broken. Each and every single one of them. I couldn’t keep it to myself any longer. Daddy, why are the toilets in America all broken? They all have too much water… I continued as my father burst out in laughter.
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I recall the wooden cars, and feeling like I was riding on are. American luxury. I even rode in the trunk of the car … being as it was just like one of the cars in your picture. Watching the road lights on the highway (these are the little lights stuck to the ground between lane lines..not sure road lights was a good description) at night and wondering why the road was lighting up. Walking into our home in MD was glorious. The whole place just smelled DIFFERENT. I hadn't had a carton of orange juice since Germany…and there it was waiting in the fridge. Walking down memory lane is fun. I didn't even know I had some of the memories that are coming up.